Jakarta TimeSama sama is bahasa for “you’re welcome.” Literally translated it means “same same.” At first this seemed like a rather odd reply for giving thanks, but upon spending a little time in Indonesia it clicked for me. This is why I spent some more time thinking about why sama sama was so important to the Indonesia people. A little role play to demonstrate..
Andrea says: Terima kasih (Thank you)
X replies: Sama sama
What I hear in my head: NO, same same, thank YOU for your company
It’s as if they want to return the thanks to you, more so than with a “my pleasure” reply. It represents a stronger display of gratitude that reflects a deep rooted, caring nature of the people here.
It’s hard for me to point to one simple anecdote that’s led me to this little rant. Perhaps it’s the waiters who respond to my broken bahasa, attempting their broken English so I can actually understand what I’m ordering. Or the kindness all of our new friends display in helping us navigate the landscape here. Maybe its also the MANY simple activities that I could take care of myself (buying a few small items from the grocery store in Pacitan, for example) which have turned into full on group activities. Admittedly, being a ferociously independent person capable of doing most things on my own, this drove me crazy at first. Now that I understand (or at least I think I do!) the roots behind these overly friendly behaviors, I am trying to give up the caring and just accept the extra company!
Yes, people riding on top of train. This is a regular occurrence. Perhaps they are waving to thank me for taking their picture?
Dude selling eels at a market in Jakarta. Also, I imagine he's thanking me for taking his picture.. doubtful many people want to remember those eels.
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